GULDER

If you read my Journal with care, you will note that I spend I estimate 10 hours preparation against an hour scene be it that most sessions last many hours, but BDSM is a real mental exercise that incorporates , as you correctly say, physical stimulation of the senses. When I investigate a woman’s needs, fantasies and dreams, that what they wish is often not possible, they would be hospitalized or permanently crippled, as I delve into their complicated minds I always establish what sparks these cruel desires and then in session the fear rush confuses the brain to believing that their pain threshold is being overtaken, and multi-orgasmic pleasure mixed with the pain takes place, eventually I will maintain a situation were a female sub will actually go into subspace, to achieve this is wonderful for a subs Master.

You are perfectly correct, as you say whether it be corporal punishment, restraint, sensory deprivation or humiliation, it must be geared to the deep-seated wants, needs, fears and desires of the sub, that is why I spend hours delving my subs minds, I demand honesty and truthful answers to each and every question I ask, I have an ability once I have collated mountains of data, to look into my subs eyes deep, and question them, the eyes can not lie, they do not have that ability, once the sub realizes that she can not lie, she starts to find peace in confession, and eventually reveal all, this way she frees her mind ,body and soul, after such sessions a sub becomes far easier to control and will be totally compliant.

.Finally you say that in many cases, much if not most of which lies below the surface of the subs consciousness, this I find has to be revealed, woman are the most devious creatures on the planet, nature has designed the woman in this way to survive, my subs have to learn lines and ritual, one being my teachings of the Hidden Mysteries of Nature and Science, and are taught to understand why they want to give up all hope to a Dom or Domme to take from them everything they have got, I take every atom of a woman, I leave here desolate , exhausted with nothing, not even her sexuality, and I then gently rebuild her, in doing so the cleansing process makes her the most confident woman on the planet. I have a sub I trained 20 years ago, she is now 62, she is Chairman of a Group of successful hotels, when I took her as a sub, she was a mess, young women have very serious problems these days, I have 2 subs under 30 years and my friend and associate Master a 22 year old, pretty and beautiful, to give themselves all they have to mature masters is quite unbelievable, in many ways it is not healthy, these woman will want children and their maternal genes will kick in, they will be trained, given confidence and released , I hope to a 100% vanilla life, that certainly is my program, so a good Dom is confident, must be 100% confident, they take on a lot of responsibility, more than patient and very perceptive. I do not permit alcohol , or drugs of any kind prescribed or otherwise in session, and never exercise anger. So to close we chip away at the hard shell that covers the sub's psyche, break it down and totally remove it, one hundred percent exposure and vulnerability, and together Master and sub/slave travel in tandem the path to fulfillment.ಮೈ ಲಾಂಗ್