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The submissive is a woman, firm in her femininity. She offers herself to a Master freely, of her own choosing. She gives her gift of submission in exchange for his love, care and protection. She is respectful and obedient because she chooses to be, not because she is forced to be. Her first priority is pleasing her Master and she will do whatever he asks in order to fulfill his wishes and desires.

She comes to him as a woman, but unsure of her place. With his love, guidance and direction, she quickly learns what is expected of her as his submissive. With this newfound knowledge she begins to give more freely of herself, releasing more of her heart, mind, body and soul until she has given all of herself to her Master. There is no power exchange or loss of control, she gives only what she wants to give of herself. Her Master takes and holds these possessions safely in his heart, always sharing them with her, always giving back what she needs. An immense measure of trust is built between the two, for the submissive must learn to trust her Master completely in order to give him so much of herself and the Master must learn to trust his submissive in order for him to accept her gifts of submission.

The training of a submissive is merely the process of the submissive learning what her Master wants from her. The submissive must learn many new social and sexual skills and behaviors such as how to address her Master, how to speak to him, how to act and behave in private or in a public setting and how to sexually please her Master to name but a few. It is the Master’s responsibility to teach his submissive these new mannerisms and behaviors and to practice them as often as he deems necessary. She will learn to do these things because she wants to and aims to please her Master in all ways possible. Even the most "bratty" submissive comes to know just what is expected of her and what her Master's limits are. She may in play push him only so far, but to exceed that limit, would be to displease her Master, something a submissive should always attempt to avoid.

The submissive seemingly has no responsibilities, but a deeper understanding of the Dom/sub relationship shows otherwise. It could be said, that the Master has all the responsibilities: however, many of the submissive’s responsibilities are subtle and can be easily overlooked. As previously mentioned, an extremely important one is to please her Master. Perhaps more important, however, is the amount of faith and trust the submissive must have in her Master. She must believe that what he does is for the good of all concerned and learns to NEVER question his motives or objectives. If he orders her to do something, she will do so immediately, without reservation or embarrassment because that is what her Master desires. She will not harbor any resentment or feelings of guilt or shame from this action because she trusts that her Master knows what is best for both of them.

The submissive is a wonderful role to live by with the right Master. With Him, she will grow emotionally, sexually and spiritually into her true submissive being. She will become what she is deep within, and will learn how to love her Master freely and unconditionally.